Looking for Feature Tree Suggestions for My Front Yard

Hey everyone! This is my first post here, and I've loved seeing all the gardening discussions with such smart and helpful advice. I'm on the hunt for a feature tree to place in front of the windows by my front door. It could either stand alone or fit into a larger landscaping project.I've got a rock river on the other side of the driveway, a young maple tree, some ornamental grasses, and a bed of native perennials that I might want to integrate.

I'm located in Zone 5b, and the space from the sidewalk to the road is about 33 feet wide. My soil has quite a bit of clay, but surprisingly, my landscaping from the last couple of years is thriving despite that. The area gets full sun and is in a wooded neighborhood with deer around.

Here are what I'm aiming for:
1. I'd like to enjoy looking at a beautiful tree instead of just grass and the road.
2. It would be nice to have some privacy from people passing by.
3. I want to soften the hard edges of the driveway and road.
4. The tree should reach a decent height, ideally something nurseries typically carry.
5. I'm looking for a maximum height of around 30 feet at maturity.

I've thought of a few options:
1. Blue spruce—love them, but not sure about mid-sized options or if they're worth the risk since many nurseries don't stock them anymore due to fungal issues.
2. Magnolia (like Felix)—they're stunning with those blooms, but the mess and short bloom time might be a downside.
3. Stellar pink dogwood—super pretty, but may get too wide and not sure about local availability.
4. Japanese tree lilac—gorgeous blooms and great shape; I had one before that did really well.

I'd love to hear if you have any excellent tree recommendations I haven't considered. The main ones I'm ruling out are fruit and nut trees because of the mess they create, and while lindens would fit well, they attract Japanese beetles here and get stripped badly every year.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions or insights!