I need some perspective on a frustrating situation I'm having with a contractor who is handling a gut renovation for my new apartment. We agreed he would complete work outside the kitchen first so I could move in on time. Initially, he was great during the planning phase, but after I paid the deposit, his communication has dropped off significantly.
Although he got the electrical permits quickly, the plumbing permit took weeks because he hadn't even requested it. He eventually got things moving, but now I've had several issues with the subcontractors being careless during the work. For example, after the drywallers completed their work, they left holes sealed up incorrectly and made a mess, and the flooring guys did the same, leaving my place dirty and unorganized. I expected at least a broom-clean finish, especially since I had painters scheduled soon after.
When I expressed my frustration, the contractor told me I needed to 'check my attitude' and insisted that the work is going according to schedule. This experience has left me feeling like I've fallen to the bottom of his priority list, and I'm close to losing my patience. Am I being unreasonable in my expectations, or is he just neglecting his responsibilities?
2 Answers
You're totally justified to expect your contractor to leave things at least broom clean at the end of each workday. It sounds like your expectations aren't out of whack at all. Honestly, if this contractor isn't stepping up and making the mess right, you might want to consider other options. You've got deadlines to meet, and it seems like he's not prioritizing your project.
I had a similar experience with my contractor during a home addition. I found that sometimes, you have to pick your battles; while it shouldn't be this way, it's often a reality. Don't get too caught up in the mess — your main goal is to keep the project moving forward. Still, the poor communication isn't okay, and having a little firm-but-friendly approach can work wonders. Hang tight!
Thanks for the advice! I really hoped being nice would keep things smooth, but I might need to be more assertive. This is costing me time and money.

I appreciate your take on this! It is incredibly stressful, especially since everything has been delayed, and I worry about penalties from my co-op.