I'm really nostalgic about my grandparents' old garden from the '90s. I used to spend a ton of time there, but I didn't get into gardening until recently. Whenever I drive by the house, I notice it doesn't look the same anymore—just some cherry trees, irises, and maybe a few roses left. I've been thinking about sending a postcard with a picture of me and my grandparents asking the current owners if they'd be willing to share any plant cuttings that might have originated from when my grandparents lived there. Does that come off as weird?
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Sending a postcard is lovely, but I’d be a bit direct. Maybe mention in your postcard that you'd love to visit and take some cuttings while explaining your sentimental connection. It shows you’re serious and that you care.
And having a note with your photo really personalizes your request. Jumping in person is always a win!
I don't think it's weird at all! Knocking on the door and just having a friendly chat would be a great way to approach it. Just explain your connection to the garden and your memories. If they say no, no big deal.
Totally agree! A friendly conversation goes a long way.
Yeah, and even if they’re not up for cuttings, they might share some cool stories about the garden!
Not weird at all! In fact, I did something similar when I returned to my childhood home. I asked for a cutting of a tree I planted. They were more than happy to help! Just be friendly and open, and they might share your excitement.
That sounds fantastic! It’s all about connecting over gardening memories.
Exactly! Just imagine the joy of sharing gardening stories with them!

Good point! A postcard could set the mood, and then you can show up and share the story! That’s nice.