I'm curious about how gardening impacts relationships. We have a relatively large garden (about 800 sq ft) and juggling this alongside a demanding job while raising our under-4 daughter can sometimes feel overwhelming. Gardening definitely provides fresh veggies and fruits, which is great, but it's not a necessity since we can buy our food easily. However, it does bring some tension because there's always something to do in the garden, and it feels like a never-ending task. I'd like to hear from fellow gardeners about your views. Do you see gardening as a hobby or a chore? Also, how does it affect your relationship? Any thoughts or advice would be appreciated!
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Honestly, I see gardening as my stress relief! I’ve got a toddler too, so I steal moments in the garden when I can. My husband doesn’t garden much, but he loves the vibe and hanging out with me while I work. It’s a great bonding time, even if he doesn't actively participate.
I view gardening more as a hobby, but it does come with its chores. Basic upkeep like watering can feel tedious, but the joy of planting and watching things grow is worth it. I think the key is communication with your partner about who does what, especially since it should never feel like a mandatory chore!
I totally agree! It’s all about balance and recognizing each other's strengths and interests.
For me, gardening is a hobby! It’s where I escape and find peace after a hectic day. Sure, my partner doesn’t share my passion, but he enjoys the beautiful space it creates. It’s like my happy place where I can forget my worries. I can imagine with little ones around, balancing chores can be tricky though!
Thanks for sharing your perspective! I love that you find relaxation in your garden.
Glad to hear it works for you! It's amazing how gardening can bring couples together, even just by being present with each other.