I'm curious about what I should keep in my car for those spontaneous moments when I might end up having sex. Besides the obvious items like condoms and lube, are there any other essentials I should consider for before, during, or even after the encounter?
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Condoms and lube are definitely must-haves, but I think you might be overthinking this. Sometimes less is more! A simple stash of essentials like breath mints and maybe a small towel could suffice. Too much preparation might come off as creepy.
Definitely keep it simple! A little foreplay and good hygiene go a long way!
Honestly, it’s mostly about being respectful and spontaneous. Just having condoms is key, but focusing on creating a good vibe with conversation and connection is way more important than any kit you might prepare. Keep things chill and enjoy the moment!
Exactly! Over-preparing can totally kill the mood.
For sure, a genuine connection is what really matters!
One fun suggestion is to have a label maker handy! You could even label it "Sex-Prep Kit" to add a humorous touch. It shows you’re prepared and organized, which can be a bonus. Plus, a clean plastic bin to store everything is a good idea too! It keeps things neat and easy to find when you need them.
It might not be a bad idea to label it "Consensual Sex-Prep Kit"; it adds an extra level of trust for her!
And definitely add baby wipes for a quick clean-up after!
A good starter kit would be condoms, lube, and wet wipes. You could also throw in an extra pair of underwear and some baby wipes for good measure. But I would advise not keeping condoms in your car long-term; heat can compromise them!
That’s true! Keeping them in the glove compartment until you need them is probably a better bet.
And definitely consider a quick freshen-up routine before getting down—nobody wants to be self-conscious!
Ah yeah, I get what you mean! It could feel awkward if you pull out a whole kit.