So here's the deal: I recently left a pair of panties I bought under my girlfriend's pillow, and my intention was to make her think I could hook up with someone else. I want to clarify that I haven't cheated; I even have the receipt to prove that I bought those panties. But now I'm feeling guilty and wondering if this makes me an asshole. What do you guys think?
3 Answers
Yes, that's a huge jerk move, man. Whether you intended it as a joke or not, you're playing with her feelings. If you're just seeing her as a roommate rather than a partner, maybe it's time to rethink the relationship and let her go instead of resorting to emotional manipulation.
What were you even thinking? If you feel the need to make your girlfriend think you're desirable elsewhere, that's a mega red flag. Straight-up manipulation is not funny; just break up if you're not into her anymore! This is childish behavior.
Dude, you're so immature. Leaving those panties was not cool at all. It sounds like you were just trying to mess with her head. If you're feeling insecure and need attention this way, it's a sign that you might want to talk to someone about it, like a therapist or even just a trusted friend.