I'm looking to improve my skills in the bedroom and want to make sure my partner enjoys herself as much as I do. Communication and consent are key, and I'm all in on that! I'm a visual learner, so I'd love any recommendations for tutorials or podcasts that teach how to give orgasms effectively. Plus, tips and tricks for lasting longer would be great. I really want to change the stereotype that it's always about guys finishing while girls are left hanging.
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Check out this video I found! It really leveled up my game: [link](https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5712f4fcadf9c). It's all about techniques that work!
Let me know if you find a similar video for penetration!
One crucial tip: when you hit that sweet spot and your partner reacts positively, stick with what you're doing until you hear otherwise. And don't be afraid to chat about what feels good—this can make a huge difference!
Exactly! Understanding each other's cues is so important.
Agreed! Communication is key, especially about what each partner enjoys.
Communication is everything! Ask what your partner likes and don’t be afraid if you finish early. Just switch to using your hands or mouth to help her finish. It’s all about the experience together!
100% agree! Just be attentive to her needs.
And don't forget, every woman is different, so be ready to learn!
For oral pleasure, remember the clitoris is very sensitive. Be gentle and pay attention, especially if she says 'don't stop'—keep the rhythm the same!
Exactly! Don't change something that's already working!
'She Comes First' by Ian Kerner is a fantastic book that really highlights how to focus on your partner's pleasure. It helped me a lot before getting married!
Yes! It's an absolute must-read!
Came here to recommend the same!
Saving this for research purposes, lol! 🕵️♂️