I'm currently replacing the floor in my dining room of my house built in 1968, but I've hit a snag. My dad, who's 78 and has a very traditional approach to home repairs, doesn't want to deal with the rot we've discovered under the current flooring next to the sliding glass door. I believe we should cut out at least a 12-inch strip along the door to replace the rot, but he wants to just cover it up with the new floor. I need advice on how to convince him that addressing the rot now is better than hiding it. By the way, the joists in the basement run perpendicular to the door, and so far my argument about potential mold hasn't swayed him. Any suggestions?
3 Answers
It sounds like you're stepping into a tricky situation. If the problem isn’t addressed now, it might lead to bigger issues later on. Maybe point out that while it might seem like a hassle, fixing it now is easier and cheaper in the long run. Sometimes it's just about how to frame it for him—if he feels it's a proactive choice, he might be more on board.
From what you've shared, it’s crucial to address any rot to prevent future problems, but also consider the water intrusion issue. If that's not solved, your new floor might end up looking just as bad as the old one. Maybe try to focus on solving the water issue first, then tackle the rot. It's a better plan all around.
True! Addressing the root cause will save both time and money. Plus, this would give both of you peace of mind in the long run.
I get that it's a big project at his age, but at least get him to see that leaving the rot might lead to more stress later—after all, nobody wants to deal with mold or structural issues down the line. Frame it as keeping the home safe and sound, especially if you have storms or heavy snow.
Exactly! Plus, if the joists under there are rotted, you're looking at a much bigger fix down the line. Keeping it simple could help him see the benefit.