I recently had an awkward experience where I got so excited during foreplay that I ended up finishing right as I penetrated my partner. She reacted harshly, saying I should be ashamed, and I felt really embarrassed. The urologist I consulted mentioned there's nothing physically wrong with me and that it might be a mental block. So, what are some practical ways I can improve my endurance during sex?
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First off, it sounds like your partner isn't being supportive, and that's a huge red flag. Try focusing on making her feel good during foreplay—if you make her cum first, then if you finish quickly during penetration, it won't matter as much! Everybody wins, right? Plus, if you take the pressure off yourself by shifting the focus to her pleasure, you might find you relax and last longer.
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