I've recently found a passion for gardening, and it's become a wonderful outlet for my mental and physical health. Unfortunately, I can't help but notice some snarky comments from my neighbors while I work outside, such as: 'Out again in the garden?', 'Working on the grass again?', and 'Wow, there can't be an inch you haven't touched on that property.' It's frustrating because I'm not being noisy or disruptive, just tending to my plants. Sometimes, this makes me hesitate to go outside, as I feel watched or judged. How can I mentally cope with this situation? I do struggle with social anxiety, so this may affect me more than others.
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You could also simply make a game of it! Every time they comment, launch into a detailed monologue about your planting techniques or the latest project you're working on. They'll either be so bored they stop commenting, or they might actually become interested. Who knows, you might inspire them!
Love that idea! Maybe it'll lead to some fun gardening conversations instead.
I think a lot of those comments might not be as bad as they seem. They might just be awkward attempts at conversation from neighbors who don’t know how to engage. I’d suggest responding positively like, "Yeah, I love it! Gardening really helps me unwind after a long day!" You might turn their judgments into chatty compliments, trust me!
Right? It seems like a lot of folks just want to connect, even if they come off awkwardly. Maybe they’ll eventually start asking questions about what you're growing!
True! If you turn it around and make a joke or discuss your garden, you may find a new hobby buddy!
Honestly, earbuds are a lifesaver! I usually jam out to music or podcasts while gardening. It helps me tune out any snarky comments and just enjoy my time outside. Plus, wearing some good headphones can send a clear message that I'm not in the mood for chit-chat. It's my sanctuary!
Totally agree! Big headphones can definitely signal that you're busy and prefer not to engage. Plus, you can get lost in your own world without those distractions.
Exactly! Plus, it helps me focus on my gardening rather than getting worked up over comments.
Now that's clever! If they think it’s all boring, they might just walk on by next time.