Hey everyone! I'm wondering if it's still considered a nice gesture to bring flowers for a girl on a first date. What kind of flowers would be appropriate? Is there a specific color that would work better? How many should I bring? It feels like guys don't do this as much anymore, and I'm curious why that might be.
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Honestly, bringing flowers can feel a bit old-fashioned and ‘M'lady-like’ nowadays. Most first dates are casual, and flowers might set the wrong tone. It’s better to wait until you both have established some chemistry. Plus, what’s she gonna do with flowers during the date?
Totally! Save the flowers for later when things are more serious.
It really depends on how well you know her. If this is a first date with someone you don’t know well, bringing flowers might come off as too intense or even awkward. It might make her feel pressured when really you're both just trying to figure each other out. Maybe wait until the third date when you’ve built more rapport before considering flowers.
Totally agree! A first date should be about having fun and building chemistry without the extra pressure of gifts.
Exactly! Sometimes it just feels like too grand of a gesture when you’re still getting to know each other.
In my experience, a small gesture like a single flower can be sweet without being overwhelming. Something colorful and cheerful is a safer bet than a full bouquet. Just consider her preferences, and if it feels right for the vibe of your date.
Yes! And maybe only if you’re picking her up at home so she can leave them there afterwards.
A casual flower can definitely make a good impression, but read the room first!
Right? If you’re going somewhere, carrying flowers can actually be a hassle.