I'm really worried about my family's living conditions. My grandmother, who's 82, and my dad, who is disabled with Parkinson's, live in a house that has some serious issues. The roof has multiple leaks, there's mold growing, and the electrical system is from the 1960s with corrosion and signs of previous fires. My grandmother has been getting worse health-wise, with increased respiratory problems. I can do some DIY repairs, but they refuse to acknowledge how bad things are getting. I'm considering reporting the house to the health department, but I'm not sure if that's the right move or what the consequences might be.
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It sounds like a really tough situation. You need to weigh the risks—if the house burns down due to faulty wiring or something worse happens, can you live with that? But on the flip side, if the house gets condemned, where will your family go, especially your grandmother? It's a tough call, and you might want to consider what support options are available before making that decision.
You definitely should consider what happens if you report them. If they can’t afford any repairs, where will they go? Maybe try to talk to them about the situation first. I think a welfare check could also uncover some of the issues if they need help, but it’s a fine line to walk. You seem like you care deeply for them, and that’s worth noting. Just be careful about how you approach it.
Have you looked into any programs that could help? The health department might not just get involved to fix things, and it could lead to your family being in a really bad spot if the house is condemned. There are grants for seniors and disabled individuals that can help with repairs; my grandmother got her roof done for free through one. It might be worth seeking out those resources first.