I just landed my first office job and start on Monday! Since I'll be working in a team of about 24 people, I'm considering bringing in two boxes of donuts as a way to introduce myself and break the ice. However, I'm not sure if this is a good idea or if it might come off as trying too hard. Should I go for it on day one, or would it be better to wait until I get a feel for the office environment?
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I’d say hold off on the donuts for now. It’s your first day, so it might come off as a bit too eager. Give it a week or two to feel out the office culture. Maybe bring in treats on a Friday once you’re more settled and can thank everyone for helping you out.
Yeah, and it might also help you avoid any surprise dietary issues if you wait a bit!
I wouldn’t bring them on day one. Wait until you get a handle on the office dynamics. It could be great to bring in treats, but make it a genuine gesture instead of a way to win affection right off the bat.
Yeah, and remember that it’s also about who you’re working with. Some might have strict dietary restrictions.
Definitely! You want to fit in without making anyone uncomfortable.
In my experience, first-day treats can be hit or miss. Some offices love it; others think it’s a weird power play. Gauge the vibe first before making a bold move. If you decide to go for it, maybe just bring in something simple and casual!
I understand the concern! What if you bring them in a couple of weeks as a thank-you instead?
Exactly! It’s all about timing and understanding the culture first.
No way, bring those donuts! It’s a classic move and people typically appreciate free treats, especially in the office. Just make sure they are from a good local shop, not some grocery store stuff. Make a good first impression!
I agree! Everyone loves donuts, and it’ll be a fun way to introduce yourself. Just be careful with any allergies!
Big yes to that! Just don't make it a habit, or people will expect treats every day.
I’d wait a bit. First impressions count, and you want to establish yourself without seeming overly eager. Maybe after the second week, like a 'thanks for welcoming me' gesture could be nice!
Totally! This way, your gesture won’t feel forced, and you’ll actually know your coworkers better by then.
Good point! Plus, it gives you a chance to see if anyone else has treats regularly.

Exactly! It’ll feel more genuine if you wait and express your gratitude after your first week.