I have a relative who's really enthusiastic about home decorating and has decided to replace all their standard lights with color-changing LED strips, claiming it's modern. Their daughter reached out to me, saying they feel ignored and are worried it will turn their home into a nightclub. She wants me to step in and talk to them. Should I address this with my relative given our good relationship, or just let it be? I want to offer helpful advice without coming off as intrusive or rude.
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If you feel comfortable with them and believe they'll listen, it might be worth sharing your perspective. You could suggest finding a happy medium—some fun lighting but still keeping it cozy. Just be sure to keep the discussion light to avoid any tension.
Honestly, I think letting them figure it out might be best. They’ll probably realize after redoing one room that it’s not the vibe they want. Plus, I’m curious how they plan on installing those LED strips—are they going to string them up like Christmas lights?
Remember, it’s their house, their decision. If it's really bothering the daughter, it might be better for her to express her feelings directly rather than having you step in. Maybe she can mention to them not doing it in her own room and leave it at that. Honestly, it’s hard to imagine adults going for that look, but who knows?
I think that's a good point! I just worry they won't get how overwhelming it could be.
Yeah, just suggest they look into more versatile options like HUE bulbs. You can have themed lighting without going overboard!