I'm planning to ask out someone who has already finished college and I'm curious about what would be a good first date for her. I want to make it enjoyable and memorable! Any suggestions?
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One of the best first dates I had was at an art museum. It’s an adult place that sparks conversation, whether you're admiring the art or poking fun at some of the weirder pieces. Grab some food afterward, and if the vibe is right, maybe go for a walk to chat more. If it’s not hitting it off, you can easily call it an early night without any pressure.
A friend of mine actually did it in reverse—food first, then the museum. She said it helped them relax and have a blast making fun of the artwork while having a few drinks. A recipe for a great connection!
My first date idea was a zoo visit followed by fast food! Now we have kids and they love going to the zoo!
Honestly, coffee or tea at a cute bookstore is perfect for a first date. You can feel the vibe without committing too much time. If it doesn’t click, easy exit. Plus, talking about books can lead to interesting topics! If it goes well, maybe suggest a walk or something more adventurous for the next time. Low stakes, high reward!
Love this idea! You really can gauge someone’s interests through a good chat about books.
For me, a bar trivia night was a great choice. It let us bond, share laughs, and I got to see how she interacted with her friends too. Now we’ve been together for nearly seventeen years! On a different note, a casual dinner followed by a trip to a bookstore can be a cozy date, especially if you both share a love for reading. It opens up lots of topic discussions and fun banter!
I did karaoke on my first date, and it was an absolute blast! Nothing like singing off-key together to break the ice!
Haha, that’s a solid approach! We did something similar on our first date, and we ended up having dessert after! Best decision ever.