I'm really curious about the trend of women divorcing more often compared to the past, especially when the reasons aren't about typical red flags like infidelity, addiction, or abuse. In my own case, I was married for 13 years, and it ended despite the fact that there weren't any 'bad' reasons for it. My friend just experienced the same thing after 23 years of marriage. What's going on?
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It seems like a lot of women are realizing that they can be happier on their own than in a relationship that doesn't meet their needs. Many feel that they shouldn't have to settle for mediocrity in their marriages anymore, especially now that they're more financially independent. It's like they’re breaking free from the notion that they need to be married to be fulfilled.
There are lots of reasons behind the rise in divorces. People often stay in unhappy relationships thinking they'll work it out, but too often they don't. If both partners aren’t putting in the effort, it can lead to dissatisfaction. Many women today are less willing to tolerate a lack of communication or selfishness, leading them to choose divorce instead of continuing in an unfulfilling relationship.
Yep, it’s about both partners contributing to the relationship. If one person gives up, it's tough for the other to carry the weight.
I think more people are open to the idea that it's okay not to stay together if they're not happy. Financial independence plays a big role too; women used to be reliant on men for support. Now, they're choosing to prioritize their happiness over staying in a relationship that feels constraining. Plus, with social media showcasing happy singles, it’s no wonder they’re deciding to go for it alone.
Exactly! It’s really about understanding your worth and not just staying in a relationship for the sake of it. Women are seeing that they have options now.